This is a major difference between the Elite and the average person. The majority of people have things happen to them while the successful make things happen. This causes the masses to play the blame game whereas the top of the hierarchy is taking action.
Success is a mental game. Sexual Motivation deals a great deal with the mental aspect of life. We are all conditioned by those around us. Our minds are like sponges absorbing all that people have to offer us. In the end, our entire belief system was created by other people. Few ever take the time to proactively choose what they think. Instead, we defend the ideas that are in our heads regardless of how they got there. This is insanity at its' best but something that most people engage upon daily.
In changing our lives, it is crucial to stop being held captive by those who raised us. As adults, we are free to think whatever we so choose. This is where the onset of freedom comes from. However, one can never be completely free until he or she assumes responsibility for all that happens in one's life. This is a major undertaking but one that makes all the difference.
Personal responsibility is only for those interest in joining the Elite. By adopting this outlook, one eliminates the ability to blame. Acceptance that you are responsible for all that happens in your life is the basic premise. This is the mindset that will separate you from everyone else.
Of course, we need to begin our acceptance when we reach the age of adulthood. There are things that happened as children where we were innocent and defenseless. Children are often victims. This I am not going to deny. However, as an adult you are free to choose how you process the past. Some are still hindered by it while others motivate themselves. The choice is up to you.
Each day we are making decisions. This is a part of the human existence. At the same time, everything that happens to us was a result of a previous decision. This is a concept that is crucial to grasp. People who take responsibility for themselves know that they decided to experience everything that happened to them. Any situation can be traced back to a decision that you made. Responsibility mandates that you follow this path backwards.
Those who disagree with this statement simply haven't chose to apply this concept. For example, one would say that he didn't choose to have his wife run off with the neighbor. Well, let me ask, 'who chose the wife and the neighborhood to live in'? Obviously, this man had some say in at least one of these events. If he had not married her, would his wife had run off with the neighbor? Obviously not since he would not have had a wife (or at least that one). You see, personal responsibility means that my choices led me to where I am today.
We can see this apply to any facet of our lives. Take a look at your career. Who was the one who chose that field? The answer is you did. People often complain about their bosses. As you can guess, I ask 'who keeps showing up each day'? Anything that takes place in your life is a natural process of a decision you made at some point in time.
This mindset removes the ability to play the victim. Here we have a pastime that is more popular than baseball and football put together. Almost everyone wants to be the victim. That is why most dwell at the lower levels of the hierarchy. Playing the victim has the payoff of sympathy. However, this is a commodity that is worthless in the success game. Being a victim is opting for helplessness. The Elite know that it is power that causes one to excel. They are victors as opposed to victims.
Whatever is in your life at this moment which causes you misery is a there because somewhere along the line you chose it. This is an idea that most fail to grasp. Nevertheless, as one who is working your way up the hierarchical ladder of success, it is crucial that you implement this into your life immediately. Victims never win. The only way for you to regain the power you gave away is to start taking responsibility for your life. Whomever you are blaming at a given moment has power over you. Resist this temptation and stop seeking sympathy. The only way to excel is to exert the power that resides within you. This means taking personal responsibility for your life.
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Thursday, March 4, 2010
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Freedom in Life
This is something that many talk about but few really pay attention to. Society has a way of imprisoning us. Many claim to be free but the reality is they live in total bondage. Nothing about their lives is their own. Their entire existence is spend fulfilling the desires of others.
Society teaches us to be selfless. I say that to be free we must instead be "selfish". Now, before anyone goes off the deep-end, I am not referring to being a completely self-absorbed ass. Instead, what I mean by selfish is a self-interest in one's own life. Too often we are taught to sacrifice ourselves for the sake of others. This is not how freedom is acquired.
For whatever reason, freedom is something that a person has always had to fight for. History reveals the struggle man embarked upon in battling foes who wished to hold him captive. The same concept is equally present today. There are forces in each of our lives that seek to control us. This comes from almost every person we encounter.
If you question this, take a look at your day. How much of it is spend on activities that you choose? Most find that only a small portion of their time is spent engaging in behaviors that are of their own free choice. For example, our work hours are dictated by other people whether it be a boss or a customer/client. After hours can be occupied by family responsibilities with children and spouses taking the lead. Finally, we know how institutions such as governments and other dogma promoting entities try to control what we think and do. In the end, freedom is only an illusion.
Obviously, if everyone assumed total freedom in their lives, society would be afflicted with anarchy. Total freedom is also something that is not readily possible. However, this is not much of a concern since most of the populous is adept at falling into line with the prevailing mentality of the day. This is where you are able to separate yourself from them.
Freedom in life starts in the mind. Making a conscious choice to look at all of your beliefs helps to move one in a direction away from control. This "rebellion" unearths how enslaved one truly can become. Adhering to the wishes of others all the time is nothing more than turning your life over to that person. People do this every day of the year.
I tell people to first determine what they want sexually. So many try to fit into society by maintaining the proper sexual relationship. We are all taught that we are to meet the right person, get married, and start a family. And this is exactly what most people do. However, we are seeing more than half these arrangements ceasing because this is not the path to happiness. The dogma of old might not apply to your life.
Therefore, look at your sexual desires. This is the key to your freedom. Do you desire something different? Are you gay or bisexual and afraid to explore that part of yourself? Do you desire a BDSM type relationship? Is the single path better suited for you? Or are you poly and seeking multiple relations at the same time? All of these choices are valid and available to you. However, they will be nothing more than fantasy as long as you are unwilling to look at your beliefs. These are the things that will enslave you. Breaking free of binding ideas is one of the major steps towards liberation. Consider taking that step now.
Click here for your version of Sexual Motivation.
Society teaches us to be selfless. I say that to be free we must instead be "selfish". Now, before anyone goes off the deep-end, I am not referring to being a completely self-absorbed ass. Instead, what I mean by selfish is a self-interest in one's own life. Too often we are taught to sacrifice ourselves for the sake of others. This is not how freedom is acquired.
For whatever reason, freedom is something that a person has always had to fight for. History reveals the struggle man embarked upon in battling foes who wished to hold him captive. The same concept is equally present today. There are forces in each of our lives that seek to control us. This comes from almost every person we encounter.
If you question this, take a look at your day. How much of it is spend on activities that you choose? Most find that only a small portion of their time is spent engaging in behaviors that are of their own free choice. For example, our work hours are dictated by other people whether it be a boss or a customer/client. After hours can be occupied by family responsibilities with children and spouses taking the lead. Finally, we know how institutions such as governments and other dogma promoting entities try to control what we think and do. In the end, freedom is only an illusion.
Obviously, if everyone assumed total freedom in their lives, society would be afflicted with anarchy. Total freedom is also something that is not readily possible. However, this is not much of a concern since most of the populous is adept at falling into line with the prevailing mentality of the day. This is where you are able to separate yourself from them.
Freedom in life starts in the mind. Making a conscious choice to look at all of your beliefs helps to move one in a direction away from control. This "rebellion" unearths how enslaved one truly can become. Adhering to the wishes of others all the time is nothing more than turning your life over to that person. People do this every day of the year.
I tell people to first determine what they want sexually. So many try to fit into society by maintaining the proper sexual relationship. We are all taught that we are to meet the right person, get married, and start a family. And this is exactly what most people do. However, we are seeing more than half these arrangements ceasing because this is not the path to happiness. The dogma of old might not apply to your life.
Therefore, look at your sexual desires. This is the key to your freedom. Do you desire something different? Are you gay or bisexual and afraid to explore that part of yourself? Do you desire a BDSM type relationship? Is the single path better suited for you? Or are you poly and seeking multiple relations at the same time? All of these choices are valid and available to you. However, they will be nothing more than fantasy as long as you are unwilling to look at your beliefs. These are the things that will enslave you. Breaking free of binding ideas is one of the major steps towards liberation. Consider taking that step now.
Click here for your version of Sexual Motivation.
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Physical Vitality
The benefits of physical fitness are well known. Over the last 50 years, the medical profession made great strides in the areas of preventative medicine, surgical techniques, and curing of diseases. Yet, studies are revealing that somewhere around half of the Western cultures are either fat or obese. And, this is a number that seems to be going higher each year.
It does not take a scientific researcher to know this is the trend. A simple walk around the local mall will reveal how fat people really are. In spite of overwhelming evidence, people are still putting themselves at risk of heart disease, cancer, and diabetes. Many of these are results of lifestyle choices. All told, they will shorten the life expectancy of one substantially.
Of course, the medical community tells us what to do to avoid this outcome. Without going into an in depth physical fitness program, the basic tenets of good health are exercise, proper diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables, sleep, and drink lots of water. These are basic components that most physical/health plans include.
That being said, have you noticed how few actually follow these guidelines. Look at the waistline of most people and you quickly see the answer. Therefore, I can only conclude that the possibility of death is a lousy motivator for people. Thus, we need to come up with something else.
In my book, Sexual Motivation, I delve into the 4 areas that one needs to focus upon for sexual advancement. One of the primary areas is the physical body. This is something that all of us can do something about. When people are obese, not only are they unhealthy, but also, rather unattractive. Most times they rank rather low on the hierarchy of sexual attractiveness.
This is easily solved by implementing the simple plan of good health. I found that as physical fitness increases, so does sex appeal. Thus, the desire is to continually move ourselves up the hierarchy of attractiveness. Concentrating on those activities that will make us sexually desirable to the opposite sex provides results across the spectrum. The key is to find the right motivator.
Sexual Motivation is based upon the belief that people are more likely to take action when there is a sexual payoff as opposed to anything else. Consider the above example: what is more likely to get one to work out, the likelihood of getting it on with a hot man or woman or living a few extra years (decades down the road)? Obviously, based upon the walk around the mall, the extended life motivator isnt working.
Society tells us to look deeper. It refuses to allow us to be "shallow". We are evolved to the point where we are tolerant of other people's shortcoming. Basing our conclusion simply on looks is something that is considered "barbaric". People are much more than their physical appearance. Only those who are superficial will stoop to such a level.
I say horse crap to that. Society allows people a free ride. We are no longer held accountable for our actions. Physical health and vitality is something that is in our control. It is attainable by anyone. Yet, we allow people to be "blubber butts" in fear of offending them. This is a practice that is killing people because we are afraid of telling the people the truth.
The bottom line is that most people would like to be in bed with someone who is physically attractive. If you don't' believe me, how come society sexually idolizes Jennifer Aniston instead of Rosanne Barr? The simple answer, Rosanne Barr is grotesquely fat. It might be shallow but it is true.
Consider what you physical appearance is like. This is something that is in your control. Forget about concentrating on all the health benefits of working out. Instead, focus on all the payoffs sexually you will receive when you have that "buff" body. I surmise this list will motivate a great deal more than the reasons the doctor gave you during your last checkup.
Click here for your version of Sexual Motivation.
It does not take a scientific researcher to know this is the trend. A simple walk around the local mall will reveal how fat people really are. In spite of overwhelming evidence, people are still putting themselves at risk of heart disease, cancer, and diabetes. Many of these are results of lifestyle choices. All told, they will shorten the life expectancy of one substantially.
Of course, the medical community tells us what to do to avoid this outcome. Without going into an in depth physical fitness program, the basic tenets of good health are exercise, proper diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables, sleep, and drink lots of water. These are basic components that most physical/health plans include.
That being said, have you noticed how few actually follow these guidelines. Look at the waistline of most people and you quickly see the answer. Therefore, I can only conclude that the possibility of death is a lousy motivator for people. Thus, we need to come up with something else.
In my book, Sexual Motivation, I delve into the 4 areas that one needs to focus upon for sexual advancement. One of the primary areas is the physical body. This is something that all of us can do something about. When people are obese, not only are they unhealthy, but also, rather unattractive. Most times they rank rather low on the hierarchy of sexual attractiveness.
This is easily solved by implementing the simple plan of good health. I found that as physical fitness increases, so does sex appeal. Thus, the desire is to continually move ourselves up the hierarchy of attractiveness. Concentrating on those activities that will make us sexually desirable to the opposite sex provides results across the spectrum. The key is to find the right motivator.
Sexual Motivation is based upon the belief that people are more likely to take action when there is a sexual payoff as opposed to anything else. Consider the above example: what is more likely to get one to work out, the likelihood of getting it on with a hot man or woman or living a few extra years (decades down the road)? Obviously, based upon the walk around the mall, the extended life motivator isnt working.
Society tells us to look deeper. It refuses to allow us to be "shallow". We are evolved to the point where we are tolerant of other people's shortcoming. Basing our conclusion simply on looks is something that is considered "barbaric". People are much more than their physical appearance. Only those who are superficial will stoop to such a level.
I say horse crap to that. Society allows people a free ride. We are no longer held accountable for our actions. Physical health and vitality is something that is in our control. It is attainable by anyone. Yet, we allow people to be "blubber butts" in fear of offending them. This is a practice that is killing people because we are afraid of telling the people the truth.
The bottom line is that most people would like to be in bed with someone who is physically attractive. If you don't' believe me, how come society sexually idolizes Jennifer Aniston instead of Rosanne Barr? The simple answer, Rosanne Barr is grotesquely fat. It might be shallow but it is true.
Consider what you physical appearance is like. This is something that is in your control. Forget about concentrating on all the health benefits of working out. Instead, focus on all the payoffs sexually you will receive when you have that "buff" body. I surmise this list will motivate a great deal more than the reasons the doctor gave you during your last checkup.
Click here for your version of Sexual Motivation.
Monday, January 25, 2010
Personal Values
What is it that you value the most in life? This is a question that few take the time to think about. However, it is crucial if you are ever to attain any degree of success in life.
Values are the things that "make us tick". If you want to know why you do something, just look at your values. Whatever you value highest is what you will follow most of the time. This is true regardless of what it is.
For example, what if you were confronted with the situation of being called into the office on a Saturday. Do you go? The answer to this question depends upon what your highest value is. If you are one who values family above all else, you will obviously choose that. On the other hand, if you career is the primary value you hold, then your Saturday will be spent at the office.
Most go through life unaware of what they value. They fail to sit down and map out what it is that means the most to them. Instead, they hold onto objects as a symbol of what they are really after. This leads to dissatisfaction since objects rarely providing lasting satisfaction. Only the fulfillment of one's values lead to a complete and happy life.
For me, freedom is one of my highest values. I place it above all else. Knowing this has allowed me to structure aspects of my life with this in mind. There are many areas which reflect this priority. At the same time, there are certain things that are present in my life which go counter to this ideal. These are the areas that I am still working on. Improvement is a lifelong challenge and structuring my life is a full time premise. My goal is to move closer each day to the eventual outcome I seek.
Spend some time thinking about what you value the most in life. It is an exercise which will net extreme rewards.
Values are the things that "make us tick". If you want to know why you do something, just look at your values. Whatever you value highest is what you will follow most of the time. This is true regardless of what it is.
For example, what if you were confronted with the situation of being called into the office on a Saturday. Do you go? The answer to this question depends upon what your highest value is. If you are one who values family above all else, you will obviously choose that. On the other hand, if you career is the primary value you hold, then your Saturday will be spent at the office.
Most go through life unaware of what they value. They fail to sit down and map out what it is that means the most to them. Instead, they hold onto objects as a symbol of what they are really after. This leads to dissatisfaction since objects rarely providing lasting satisfaction. Only the fulfillment of one's values lead to a complete and happy life.
For me, freedom is one of my highest values. I place it above all else. Knowing this has allowed me to structure aspects of my life with this in mind. There are many areas which reflect this priority. At the same time, there are certain things that are present in my life which go counter to this ideal. These are the areas that I am still working on. Improvement is a lifelong challenge and structuring my life is a full time premise. My goal is to move closer each day to the eventual outcome I seek.
Spend some time thinking about what you value the most in life. It is an exercise which will net extreme rewards.
Monday, August 10, 2009
The Opinions of Others
Did you ever take the time to consider how much you value the opinions of others? Actually, to take it once step further, did you ever ponder how you allow the opinions of others to control your life? If you are like most, these thoughts never really cross your mind. Instead, you pass through life living according to the precepts of others.
Nowhere is this more evident than in the area of sex. I found that the sexual arena is where all human behavior is magnified. If you want to find out something about how humans act, look at their sexual practices. With regard to the opinions of others, we see that our sexual activities are often controlled those very opinions. People rarely form their own ideals in this area. Instead, they allow others to dictate all that transpires.
Remember the days of high school where you would go out with a certain girl (or guy) because you knew your friends would not approve? Of course. We all remember those days. Sadly, the truth that most of us do not have to think all the way back to high school to recall this behavior. I would guess the majority of people retain this same mindset into adulthood.
Sex is something that is highly personal and individual. We all are attracted to something different. What one person finds sexy, another might find revolting. However, most tend to fall into the trap of trying to fit into what is considered normal. Therefore, they will resist taking action which goes contrary to popular belief.
A prime example is the homosexual community. This is a group that was ostracized for decades by society. They were judged, condemned, and physically abused. Society called them all kinds of names in an effort to "convert" them to normalcy. Sadly, many fell prey to these pressures. The opinions of others (and the violence) forced them to abandon the sexual choice they wanted to make. This trend changed in the last few decades with homosexuality being accepted by a larger percentage of the population. Nevertheless, the same cannot be said for polygamists, transgenders, or swingers. These groups are still looked down upon.
People who know me understand that I am involved in all kinds of "defiant" sexual behavior. (I write that term in quotes to signify their judgment not mine) I am a swinger, nudist, and practitioner of BDSM. These are lifestyle choices which I consciously chose which puts me at odds with mainstream society. Nevertheless, this is how I want to live my life. I am not at the mercy of public opinion on this one.
This brings me back to my original questions. Consider your life and how often you succumb to the wishes of others. Do you attend family gatherings out of guilt? Are you worried about what others will think when you are confronted with a decision? Do you shy away from choices because you know they are against the norms of those you frequently interact with? This is a sign that you put too much emphasis on what others think. Your life is your own. It is up to you to determine what you do with your time here on this planet. At the end of the road, when you look back, there will be nobody to blame but yourself.
Stop putting stock into what others think. The sad truth is that most of the people you are trying to appease are unhappy in their own lives. Whenever anyone is focusing upon your life, they are not looking at their own. This distraction is what most people want since they lack the courage to face the truth about their lives. Hence, they spent their time criticizing others who decide to live a little differently. These are the people that most are putting stock in.
As you can see, the opinions of others should matter little to you. I chose to live my life according to standards that are acceptable to me. If someone else has an issue with my choice, then that is his or her problem. We are free to choose how we spend our time on this planet and this is a freedom I opt to exercise. Do you have the courage to do the same? If so, then stop worrying so much about what others think. Do not allow their misery to rule your life.
Nowhere is this more evident than in the area of sex. I found that the sexual arena is where all human behavior is magnified. If you want to find out something about how humans act, look at their sexual practices. With regard to the opinions of others, we see that our sexual activities are often controlled those very opinions. People rarely form their own ideals in this area. Instead, they allow others to dictate all that transpires.
Remember the days of high school where you would go out with a certain girl (or guy) because you knew your friends would not approve? Of course. We all remember those days. Sadly, the truth that most of us do not have to think all the way back to high school to recall this behavior. I would guess the majority of people retain this same mindset into adulthood.
Sex is something that is highly personal and individual. We all are attracted to something different. What one person finds sexy, another might find revolting. However, most tend to fall into the trap of trying to fit into what is considered normal. Therefore, they will resist taking action which goes contrary to popular belief.
A prime example is the homosexual community. This is a group that was ostracized for decades by society. They were judged, condemned, and physically abused. Society called them all kinds of names in an effort to "convert" them to normalcy. Sadly, many fell prey to these pressures. The opinions of others (and the violence) forced them to abandon the sexual choice they wanted to make. This trend changed in the last few decades with homosexuality being accepted by a larger percentage of the population. Nevertheless, the same cannot be said for polygamists, transgenders, or swingers. These groups are still looked down upon.
People who know me understand that I am involved in all kinds of "defiant" sexual behavior. (I write that term in quotes to signify their judgment not mine) I am a swinger, nudist, and practitioner of BDSM. These are lifestyle choices which I consciously chose which puts me at odds with mainstream society. Nevertheless, this is how I want to live my life. I am not at the mercy of public opinion on this one.
This brings me back to my original questions. Consider your life and how often you succumb to the wishes of others. Do you attend family gatherings out of guilt? Are you worried about what others will think when you are confronted with a decision? Do you shy away from choices because you know they are against the norms of those you frequently interact with? This is a sign that you put too much emphasis on what others think. Your life is your own. It is up to you to determine what you do with your time here on this planet. At the end of the road, when you look back, there will be nobody to blame but yourself.
Stop putting stock into what others think. The sad truth is that most of the people you are trying to appease are unhappy in their own lives. Whenever anyone is focusing upon your life, they are not looking at their own. This distraction is what most people want since they lack the courage to face the truth about their lives. Hence, they spent their time criticizing others who decide to live a little differently. These are the people that most are putting stock in.
As you can see, the opinions of others should matter little to you. I chose to live my life according to standards that are acceptable to me. If someone else has an issue with my choice, then that is his or her problem. We are free to choose how we spend our time on this planet and this is a freedom I opt to exercise. Do you have the courage to do the same? If so, then stop worrying so much about what others think. Do not allow their misery to rule your life.
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Oral Motivation
As most readers know, I live an open sexual lifestyle. For this reason, I am freer to experiment with different ways to motivate myself. For those who live the same way, many of the suggestions I offer can be directly applied. However, the same holds true for those who are involved in monogamous relationships. Sexual motivation works regardless of who is delivering the sex.
It is a well known fact that any guy loves a good blowjob. By the same token, most women love to have their pussies eaten out. Oral provides us with some of the most fantastic orgasms we experience. I know many who would rather receive oral as opposed to getting laid. It is something that we find highly intoxicating.
Society deters the notion of offering sexual favors as rewards. People who do this are either doing something illegal (prostitutes) or morally incorrigible (sluts). The bottom line is that society likes to control all aspects of life and sex is the most powerful. Condition people in that area and you control all the rest.
Nevertheless, I take exception to this idea. I think that sex as a reward is a wonderful way to motivate a spouse. As mentioned, one of the best ways is to offer oral sex. It is a simple premise to do: tell your sexual partner if he or she does (blank), you will perform oral sex. If you are dealing with a guy, watch how fast he jumps to accomplish what you set down for him. A blowjob will motivate even the laziest guy to do the worst of tasks. Offer it and he will do (cumming comes later).
Many will claim this idea is sick and perverted. However, those who are willing to try it will quickly determine that motivation is nearby. If you find there is something that you were badgering one to get done, offer oral sex as a reward. In most instances the action will be completed by sunset. The motivation that was lacking for so long is instantly found. It only required pushing the right buttons.
Oral sex as a reward is a powerful way to get things done.
It is a well known fact that any guy loves a good blowjob. By the same token, most women love to have their pussies eaten out. Oral provides us with some of the most fantastic orgasms we experience. I know many who would rather receive oral as opposed to getting laid. It is something that we find highly intoxicating.
Society deters the notion of offering sexual favors as rewards. People who do this are either doing something illegal (prostitutes) or morally incorrigible (sluts). The bottom line is that society likes to control all aspects of life and sex is the most powerful. Condition people in that area and you control all the rest.
Nevertheless, I take exception to this idea. I think that sex as a reward is a wonderful way to motivate a spouse. As mentioned, one of the best ways is to offer oral sex. It is a simple premise to do: tell your sexual partner if he or she does (blank), you will perform oral sex. If you are dealing with a guy, watch how fast he jumps to accomplish what you set down for him. A blowjob will motivate even the laziest guy to do the worst of tasks. Offer it and he will do (cumming comes later).
Many will claim this idea is sick and perverted. However, those who are willing to try it will quickly determine that motivation is nearby. If you find there is something that you were badgering one to get done, offer oral sex as a reward. In most instances the action will be completed by sunset. The motivation that was lacking for so long is instantly found. It only required pushing the right buttons.
Oral sex as a reward is a powerful way to get things done.
Sunday, August 2, 2009
What Is Your Highest Value?
This is a question that few seem to ever consider. Instead, they trot through life going blindly from one day to the next. Nothing ever changes because the truth is that everyday resembles every other. While there might be minor changes like holidays or vacations, the fact is that each week ends up like the previous.
Determining what you value is what adds juice to your life. The few who take the time to uncover this fact about themselves live a higher quality of life than those who do not. These are the people who are awakened. Their existence takes on an entirely new meaning. Instantly, they develop something called "passion".
What is your highest value? Have you ever considered this for even a second? Putting some effort into these answers might yield insight into ways to change your life. Instead of blindly moving from day-to-day, you have the opportunity to design a life program that is fun and exciting.
For me, freedom is the highest value that I have. I attempt to structure as much of my life around this quality as I can. When I look at the aspects of my life today compared to 5 years ago, the change is remarkable. Of course, there still is a great deal of work to be done. Over the next few years, I am seeking to take my life path to an even greater level.
One of the first areas that I started this transformation was sexually. I learned a number of years ago the power of sex. It was such a motivator in my life and the lives that I witnessed. I saw seemingly reasonable people do the craziest things for sex. They were willing to risk great things in an effort to get laid. This is when I determined that sex could be an incredible motivator.
Looking at my life, I realized that monogamy was not for me. It is something that I wrestled with for years. Since I made this decision, I designed my life around this very premise. By doing this, I enjoy the freedom to live sexually as I see fit. I am not bound by the chains of what society says. While others are conforming, I am creating. The value of freedom is at the core of it all.
Conforming certainly has its place in our lives. I do not advocate anarchy. However, I do promote taking control of your life based upon what you value. Creating ways to fulfill these values in different areas of your life is what the journey is all about. I highly suggest you ponder what it is that you value. After that, look at how that plays in your sexual relations. This will unearth the most powerful area where you can align yourself with your true nature. Historically, sex is used to take a man down. Now we are going to use it to propel us forward.
Determining what you value is what adds juice to your life. The few who take the time to uncover this fact about themselves live a higher quality of life than those who do not. These are the people who are awakened. Their existence takes on an entirely new meaning. Instantly, they develop something called "passion".
What is your highest value? Have you ever considered this for even a second? Putting some effort into these answers might yield insight into ways to change your life. Instead of blindly moving from day-to-day, you have the opportunity to design a life program that is fun and exciting.
For me, freedom is the highest value that I have. I attempt to structure as much of my life around this quality as I can. When I look at the aspects of my life today compared to 5 years ago, the change is remarkable. Of course, there still is a great deal of work to be done. Over the next few years, I am seeking to take my life path to an even greater level.
One of the first areas that I started this transformation was sexually. I learned a number of years ago the power of sex. It was such a motivator in my life and the lives that I witnessed. I saw seemingly reasonable people do the craziest things for sex. They were willing to risk great things in an effort to get laid. This is when I determined that sex could be an incredible motivator.
Looking at my life, I realized that monogamy was not for me. It is something that I wrestled with for years. Since I made this decision, I designed my life around this very premise. By doing this, I enjoy the freedom to live sexually as I see fit. I am not bound by the chains of what society says. While others are conforming, I am creating. The value of freedom is at the core of it all.
Conforming certainly has its place in our lives. I do not advocate anarchy. However, I do promote taking control of your life based upon what you value. Creating ways to fulfill these values in different areas of your life is what the journey is all about. I highly suggest you ponder what it is that you value. After that, look at how that plays in your sexual relations. This will unearth the most powerful area where you can align yourself with your true nature. Historically, sex is used to take a man down. Now we are going to use it to propel us forward.
