We are judged based upon our actions. Words are meaningless unless we follow them up with action. This is the mistake that many make. It is easy to talk a "big game". However, backing those words up is a different matter altogether.
Sexual motivation is all about using the natural desires within us to move ourselves to action. The world is watching how we behave and all success depends upon our ability to act. Those who succumb to procrastination end up living a life that is wrought with disappointment.
Some of the best examples show this point emphatically. Let us use our physical body. Many can use losing weight. We are a nation of "lard asses" who need to get active. This is not a secret. In fact, most will tell you they need to lose weight. However, do they ever do anything about it? For the majority, the answer is "no".
Talking about losing weight will not bring about success. The same is true for business, money, or relationships. All the promises in the world are worthless without action. Success is a result of taking action in some form. All my writing is a result of me sitting down and doing it. Tax returns are filed because accountants fill them out. Building erected only after people get busy building them. At some point, everything needs to move from the planning stage.
The power of success is a great motivator to get people to act. Whenever you can picture yourself getting a sexual payoff, you are more likely to take some action. Overcoming fears that reside in our mind is often part of the process. Nevertheless, the payoff is worth it when sex is involved.
Another example which shows how important action is in the area of relationships. Many fall prey to the fear of rejection. When confronted with the prospect of asking someone out, often the mind will picture all the bad that can happen from that question. It instantly jumps to the rejection. Of course, it is impossible to get laid without asking someone out. Failure to do so will only lead to masturbation.
Consider these words as you go through your day. How much time are you spending doing as opposed to thinking. We need to understand how important taking action is. If we are continually procrastinating, then we will suffer the consequences for that. The world has a way of finding and rewarding those who take action. Make sure you are one of them.
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Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Components of Sexual Motivation
The idea that we are motivated by sex is not a novel concept. Studies dating back to the late 1940s were undertaken in an effort to unmask the animal called human sexuality. Those in the scientific community have long wondered what is the fascination with sex. And, why does it have so much power over us.
Sex as a motivator is basically made up of two components. The first is physical. Obviously we have hormones which drives our sexuality. Each gender have chemical agents that foster the sexual desire. It is what allows us to engage in the act physically. In men it causes an erection while allowing women to get "wet". Without the hormones, sex would be impossible.
The second aspect is the psychological component. Man is a thinking animal. It is impossible for him/her to turn off the brain. It is always running. During the sexual act, we have ideas that are passing through our mind. We view the world through pictures in our head. The sensations felt throughout the body are only recognized once those signals are received by the brain. We are a neurological network of highway that is constantly transmitting data back and forth.
Man's preoccupation with sex resides in the mind. It is the psychological component that is most powerful. Often times people will experience a let down when actually having sex with a particular person. In these instances, the mind created such an illusion of what sensations would be felt that reality failed to live up to expectations. Our minds are what determined the level of satisfaction we experience.
How can we use this knowledge to our advantage? The fact that we "see" life through the pictures in our minds tell us that we have the ability to determine how we view things. If we do not like something, simply change the picture. This is simple enough. Reality is only what our minds tells us it is. When using sexual motivation as a mechanism to alter your life, it is practical to design vivid pictures of what you will enjoy. The psychological component is nothing more than a mental image in your head. See yourself getting with the sexy redhead down the hall if you win the contract. Picture yourself surrounded by sexy people adoring your buff body as a result of working out. These images serve as motivation to complete the action in front of you. And, life is a contact sport. Those who sit on the sidelines never win.
Sex as a motivator is basically made up of two components. The first is physical. Obviously we have hormones which drives our sexuality. Each gender have chemical agents that foster the sexual desire. It is what allows us to engage in the act physically. In men it causes an erection while allowing women to get "wet". Without the hormones, sex would be impossible.
The second aspect is the psychological component. Man is a thinking animal. It is impossible for him/her to turn off the brain. It is always running. During the sexual act, we have ideas that are passing through our mind. We view the world through pictures in our head. The sensations felt throughout the body are only recognized once those signals are received by the brain. We are a neurological network of highway that is constantly transmitting data back and forth.
Man's preoccupation with sex resides in the mind. It is the psychological component that is most powerful. Often times people will experience a let down when actually having sex with a particular person. In these instances, the mind created such an illusion of what sensations would be felt that reality failed to live up to expectations. Our minds are what determined the level of satisfaction we experience.
How can we use this knowledge to our advantage? The fact that we "see" life through the pictures in our minds tell us that we have the ability to determine how we view things. If we do not like something, simply change the picture. This is simple enough. Reality is only what our minds tells us it is. When using sexual motivation as a mechanism to alter your life, it is practical to design vivid pictures of what you will enjoy. The psychological component is nothing more than a mental image in your head. See yourself getting with the sexy redhead down the hall if you win the contract. Picture yourself surrounded by sexy people adoring your buff body as a result of working out. These images serve as motivation to complete the action in front of you. And, life is a contact sport. Those who sit on the sidelines never win.
