Slut versus Stud?

We all know how society creates a massive double standard when it comes to sex. This is something that goes back to the beginning of civilized cultures. In short, men are studs while women are sluts.

This is the mindset that most people are raised with. To them, there is a difference between the male sexual act versus the female. Naturally, this is insane since the men need to do it with someone. A woman needs to be present if a man is to engage in sexual behavior (omitting masturbation and homosexual relations).

I feel these beliefs are just another form of control. Women are suppose to be pure and virginal. Of course, maintaining this purity until after marriage is crucial. Again, if the same expectation, from societies perspective doesnt hold, is not present for a man, how is he to get laid if all women are pure. It makes no sense.

Porn Stars Vs. Hookers

Here is an interesting illustration of the insanity of society. Have you ever wondered why prostitution is illegal in most states but making porn videos is acceptable? What is the difference? Aren't porn stars trading sex for money? Isn't that exactly what prostitutes do? I challenge anyone to tell me the difference.

In my mind there is no difference. And yes, I understand that the holy rollers out there agree with me on this. Of course, they feel that both are immoral and should be outlawed (one already is). I, on the other hand, believe that it is nobody's business. If someone wants to sell his or her body, that is that individual's choice.

Motivation

What does any of this have to do with motivation or personal development. Well, my intention here is to point out the hypocrisy that society operates under. Societal conditioning is something that we all suffer from. Breaking free from its bonds is imperative if you are to live a successful life. Nobody ever mastered their life while living in chains placed by another. The sexual belief system is one of the ways the powerful seek to control the masses. They did it for generations.

I operate under the premise that society is selling a myth. What they promote as a path to happiness is not for most people. The average person is living in a manner that is far below his or her potential. Talents that could alter the world are left untapped because people buy into the ideas of others.

What separates me from the personal development experts is that I believe we should use all the desires that are within us. Most will agree that our sexual desires are the strongest that we have. Yet, society, in an effort to maintain decorum, overlooks this. We are expected to suppress these urges. This is ridiculous in my mind. I want to take whatever is within me and use it to my benefit. That is my ultimate goal.

In my book, Sexual Motivation, I spelled out how the sex desire usually is a means to one's destruction. Looking at men like Bill Clinton, Mark Sanford, and now, Tiger Woods, we see how they jeopardized careers and marriages. This tells me we are dealing with a powerful force. What is the potential if we used this force to our benefit instead of destruction? Do you think your life would change?

That is what Sexual Motivation is all about. It is a philosophy based upon the idea that society is way off base when it comes to its outlook on sex. Those who are successful decide to take matters into their own hands. They are the ones capable of breaking free from the herd mentality. The "Elite" choose to live life as they see fit. Succumbing to the desires of others is for fools. At the end of your life, you are the one who is responsible for the journey you traveled. Blaming others will not change anything.

So what is the difference between a slut and a stud? My answer is nothing. And, I applaud both people who are behaving in such a way because they choose to live like that. People are free to engage in their sexual desires as they see fit. I congratulate anyone who breaks away from the herd mentality. That is what Sexual Motivation is all about: FREEDOM.

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Freedom Is Your Choosing

Exercising freedom is your choice. Each day, we all are confronted with decisions. In fact, our day is nothing more than a series of choices that are strung together. What we decide in each of these situations determines the quality of our lives. Therefore, there is nobody to blame for the situations that we find ourselves in. Everything we experience in life is done so at our own choosing.

Of course, this sounds ridiculous to you. This is how you are trained. Blame is something that we excel at. It is far easier to point the finger at someone else and proclaim them responsible for our woes. Sadly, this is incorrect. No matter what the circumstances, we made a decisions somewhere along the line to put ourselves in that situation. Again, that means it is our fault for whatever we experience.

Bondage or Freedom

Most people have the choice whether they experience bondage or freedom. This is something that we choose to do. Once again, since we are the one who makes the decisions in our lives, we are the ones who ultimately select the outcome. If you do not like the results you created thus far, it is time to make different decisions. That is what personal development is all about.

Addicts know what it is like to live in bondage. Anyone who has battled drugs or alcohol (or any addiction for that matter), knows the internal pain associated with trying to quit. At some point in their lives, the substance took control. Thus, freedom of choice was removed. However, those who get clean and sober know that the power of choice is restored. The option of picking up a drink or a drug is up to the person. In short, a person in recovery has a daily choice of living in bondage or freedom. Which is chosen is up to the person.

People who are not addicts also have this same choice. Unfortunately, it is my observation that most opt for the bondage path. They will proclaim themselves free yet lead lives of infantile existence because of fear. Happiness is an illusion for most. Instead of thriving and squeezing all they can out of life, they live the "responsible" way which is code for allowing fear to rule.

It seems like the majority of people want a better life. They are not satisfied with one area or another. Nevertheless, few ever take the action to do something that will make a more than a marginal difference. Fear is the most common jailer and its hold is like a vice. While on one hand they want change, the fear associated with that change is to great. It serves to maintain the status quo. A life ruled by fear is one that will always result in bondage.

Sexual Motivation Is Your Choice

In my book Sexual Motivation, I make the case that sex is the best motivator that humans can tap into. Since I have not heard any of the self-improvement gurus mention this powerful desire, I can only surmise that I am going contrary to the norm by suggesting that each person use sex to motivate him or herself to the highest ends. It is something that is natural within all of us and can be structured so as to empower us. Of course, some de-programming of the societal conditioning is necessary.

Did you realize that what you think about sex is your choice? Few ever take the time to reveal this truth to themselves. In doing so, they blindly accept the premise that society promotes as the norm for sexuality. Did you ever hear that marriage is between a man and a woman? How about the concept that homosexuals are going to burn in hell? Or that sex is something that is meant to express love? All these ideas are commonplace and result in forming the belief system that we carry. However, left unchecked means that someone else is determining how we live.

I am called shallow by many of my critics. They feel there I over simplify what sex is. The idea that sex is something that can be used to motivate oneself (or another) to take action is revolutionary to them. Naturally, it is also immoral and perverted (that is reason enough to check the book out). In the end, their judgments mean nothing to me and I hope the same is true for you. I lead my life how I see fit. They can push their dogma and morays on someone else.

Choosing what you think about sex is one of the most freeing actions you can take. Society is going to control you through your sexual belief system if you allow it. This is something that has occurred for the last couple thousand years. Whenever anyone succumbs to the beliefs of another, they are selecting to live in bondage. People who opt for freedom question what their beliefs are. This is how one retains power.

Check out the ideas contained in Sexual Motivation. I am sure it will be a revolutionary shift for you. The dogma that is commonly promoted does not lead to freedom. The goal is always bondage. Choose to live freely. Question without fear. It is the only true pathway.

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Sexual Motivation: Money

This post is going to be full of stereotypes. The reason why I believe stereotypes are good examples is because they do reflect reality to a certain degree. Of course, there are many who fit outside the stereotypical mindset. Nevertheless, for a large percentage of the population, a stereotype can be accurate. My intention here is to emphasize those that are appropriate for motivation.

There is an old saying: marry the first time for love and the second time for money. Have you ever pondered what this statement really means? To me, it shows the fallacy for many behind the connotation of making a lifelong commitment for love. Since the divorce rate is over 50%, many are finding that this single event can lead to financial ruin. Falling in love and run off with someone "to live happily ever after" is not the norm anymore. Hence, people take a different approach the second time around.

In my book Sexual Motivation, I explain some of the reasons for marriage throughout the ages. Many today would claim that a woman marrying just for money is nothing more than a golddigger. She is considered by society to be a slut, selling her body for money. The common viewpoint is she is nothing more than a whore. Even those who are not so judgmental will call her "shallow". This is what people are conditioned to believe.

Arranged Marriages

Most of history saw marriage used in a different way. Instead of leaving the choice to some starstruck lovers, families often arranged the marriages for their children. This was done in an effort to preserve the family lineage while gaining some political or economic assets. In short, people married for money whether it was to gain it or preserve it.

The odd fact about this is that the arranging of marriages was not done among the common folk. It was the royalty and upper echelon of society. The "Elite" were the ones interested in using marriage for gain. These were the ones who had a vested interest. Those who were middle to lower class were afforded the opportunity to pursue love; they had few assets to consider.

Were women under this system considered whores or sluts. Certainly not. The truth is that people have historically married for reasons other than love. Man's history is littered with times of uncertainty and peril. Often people sought out security as a means of stabilizing their lives. Marriage was a mechanism that offered a ways towards a more stable life.

The Western Culture witnessed something similar throughout its history. While not having arranged marriages, this vehicle was used by many as a path to stability. This is evident when you look at life before the equal rights movement. Women, in the early centuries of this country, were taught that their role was to become a mother and housewife. For this reason, they were not afforded the education and opportunities to pursue a career. Hence, their standard of living was dependent upon someone else. They had little input into their upward mobility.

Perhaps this is where the "golddigger" mentality came from. Women were forced to chase after some of the "Elite" if they had any chance of advancing up societies hierarchy. Of course, the families (and deserving candidates) felt the intrusion when someone "not worthy" tried to catch a well off beau. Instantly, the girl was discredited in an effort to get her to leave. Again, the hierarchy has to be preserved in their opinion.

How Things Do Not Change

The above instances seem archaic and backwater. But, are they really so out of date? Do we not see this behavior exemplified today through the Western Cultures? I cite the example of Donald Trump in my book. Do you think he would approve of one of his children marrying an unemployed steel worker? My belief is that would not go over so well. Obviously, he has higher aspirations for his children.

The hierarchy still exists. Those who are in the "Elite" class seek to keep those who are out. At the same time, those who are lower on the rung are seeking to move upwards. Marriage is still a quick way to get there. In fact, it is one of the fastest and proven methods to alter your social/economic class. While society puts labels people who choose this path, there are many still seeking it.

What does this mean for us looking to use this information to our advantage? Knowing that there is a multi-generational concept in operation allows us to develop a strategy that will attract what we need. However, it will require indulging in the stereotype which, as we see, has validity.

Golddiggers

In Sexual Motivation, I mention how sports car help to prove the stereotype of money for sex exists. Consider the reasoning why one buys a sports car. Does this person spend $60,000+ actually receive something that is twice as good as a $30,000 vehicle? Some might try to make the case that he or she does. For the true automotive enthusiast, this might be true. However, for the average person, I believe there is an ulterior motive.

Why does someone drop the big money on a Porsche? Obviously, this is done to show financial wherewithal. Those who buy this automobile are typically middle aged men who have lost a little on the physical end. Of course, cruising around in a vehicle such as this compensates for that loss. People buy Porsches to get laid. Many will claim otherwise but that is the stereotype which I think fits. You see a overweight, middle-aged, bald guy with a hot girl and tell me the Porsche had nothing to do with it. Of course it did. She is seeking financial stability.

Money is a wonderful motivator. One of the keys to success I mention in my book, is financial. Society rates those who achieve economic success highly. Since that is the case, one can use sexual motivation to attain this end. Self-motivation is what separates those who do from those who wish. Taking action is what makes the difference.

If you are a male, what is your motivation? Simply, you want to get the "golddigger". Now, before jumping off the deep end, I will say there is a difference between being motivated by this end and actually doing it. When you achieve the financial success you desire, who you choose to be with is up to you. You can seek out the girl who wants love, romance, and a deep connection while caring little about money. However, from a motivational standpoint, put yourself in a position to attract the hot girl who is simply looking for the easy ride. This is where we want to get ourselves to take action.

I am a firm believer that sex is one of the most powerful motivators that human have to access. We will do all kinds of crazy things for it. The time has come to start using this power for a productive end. The link between financial success (money) and sex is clear. If you want to get some of the "Elite" sexually, you need to be able to walk in those circles. Money is the mechanism that will attract them. Supermodels are drawn to the rich and powerful. Motivate yourself with the image of attracting one of these people. It is a basic fact that more money means having a wider array of people to have sex with. Use this idea to motivate yourself to the highest financial ends.

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Standing On Your Own Two Feet

Sexual motivation presumes that you are one of those people who wants to stand on your own two feet. I just got done reading "Atlas Shrugged" by Ayn Rand. In it, the producers all go on strike because they are tired of being taken advantage of by the "moochers" (politicians, professors, unions, and welfare seekers). They remove themselves from the abuse of society which leads to its' decay.

Naturally, I could go into a long political discussion about the present day events. I will spare you the details of that. However, it is important to note that there is a certain mindset which needs to be emphasized. People who are "elite" have the idea that they are the ones who make things happen. It is they who take the action that brings about results. When things do not transpire as planned, these are the ones who resist the temptation to blame others for what occurred. Instead, they survey the present situation in an effort to find a solution. We can only move from the point that we are at.

Are you one who wants to blame others for you plight? If you are, sexual motivation will not work for you. It is something that is beneficial to those who want to produce. Action is the key to getting results. Being responsible for your life starts in your mind. This is where personal power comes from.

Being sexually driven is something that most people can tap into. Nevertheless, there is no need to do that if the your main objective is to get home in time to watch reruns of some television program. There needs to be more.

John Galt, one of the main characters in Atlas Shrugged gives a speech where he shows the separation in the mindset of the two classes of people. Producers believe in the power of the mind. It is the ability of one's mind to create that separates us from the animal kingdom. What are you doing with yours?

Use your sexual motivation to create more in your life. There are unlimited opportunities in this world today. Even though things are difficult, there is wealth being created in all areas of life. While your financial life might not be spectacular, you can take action to create an improved body. Notice the key word, YOU. Sexual motivation taps into the power within you to get the results in your life.

Start the process by seeking to stand on your own two feet. Nobody else is to blame for how your life is. If there is something that you do not like, then begin to make the changes necessary to improve your circumstances.

Creating The Elite

The main idea behind sexual motivation is to enable people to tap into the natural potential which resides within them. Most of us are capable of so much more. Yet, we buy into the concepts of a society which lead to mediocrity. It is sad to witness but this fact offers an opportunity for those willing to move ahead. People who learn how to take action are able to enjoy the success above everyone else.

Society preaches dependence. This is the main message we receive when we look at the basic ideas of the governments, charities, and religious institutions. Individual dreams and desires is being replaced with the idea of "the greater good". It is something that causes those with talent to "sacrifice" for the benefit of others. We are taught that we are compassionate, loving, and altruistic. This is not true. What we are is allowing ourselves to be robbed of all that we can create because of the inner abilities we have.

Sex is one of the most powerful forces on Earth. We see its power each time we witness what one is giving up for this elusive force. Nevertheless, we are taught to forgive the "transgressions" of these individuals. Instead of admitting they are following a natural desire, we are told these people are "fallible". Society preaches that there is something wrong with following our natural desires. It places conditions on our behavior by teaching us what is right and what is wrong.

Those who are able to see this outlook for what it is are able to overcome the conditioning. This is why I call it "creating the elite". Being elite is a category that is above the masses. People who are elite can do things that are out of reach for the masses. They have privileges because of their place in society.

Those who are able to practice sexual motivation attain the elite status. While the majority of people are following the tenets which breeds mediocrity, we tap into those desires which result in success. Everything in the world is available for conquest. This is an idea that goes back to the beginning of civilization. Following certain patterns of behavior creates success in any field, culture, or society. The only question is whether action is taken or not.

Sexual motivation is all about taking action. We believe this is the best way to get oneself to take those steps which ultimately lead to success. Tapping into one of the most powerful forces ever created will yield much greater results as opposed to hoping and praying for things to be different. Those who wish enjoy nothing more than pipedreams. Those who act enjoy all this planet has to offer.

Abstinence-One Way To Motivate

Here is something to consider: what if I had the power to determine whether you would ever have sex again or not? I know, that power already is being utilized by your wife. But seriously, what if you had to have my permission to have sex and I would only grant it based upon certain parameters being met? How do you think your life would change? I would bet it would see an noticeable jump upwards.

The reason why I say this is because I can hold one to a very high standard. The foundation of sexual motivation is to open ourselves up the ingrained power that is our sexual desire. This is something that is natural and, other than the desire for survival, the more powerful desire we have.

Envisioning yourself living life without sex will provide insight into the magical force this is. How do you feel about never having sex again? Abstinence, or the threat of, can be really motivating. I used this technique many times to get myself over periods of stagnation.

Many motivational experts will use the love of one's children to emphasize how one can always move things up to another level. They will ask a person if he or she could complete the action if the life of the children was at stake. Often, they will mention that if you do not do this, your children will die (graphic but effective). When confronted with this prospect, naturally most will say that they will find a way to get it accomplished.

This is the same idea. What we need to do is to stimulate the mind to get out of the way. If you believe you can do no more, then you are right. However, if we add certain stimuli, we often find a new belief is created. Suddenly, when faced with the prospect of lifelong abstinence, one finds the internal fortitude to succeed. Of course, this is something that was there all along, the mind just bought into the excuses that one offered up. Sexual motivation is how we break free from the consequences of those excuses.

One final thought on this idea: couples can really use this as a means of getting the other to step up. Decide on some things that need to be done. Use sex as a reward and abstinence as a punishment. Watch how quickly motivation changes when confronted with this situation. You will see productivity increase substantially.

Play around with this idea and see where it gets you.

Think Bigger

Are you a victim of "small thinking"? This is the syndrome which stricken most to a life of mediocrity. The vast percentage of the population sabotages themselves by the thoughts they have. Few will enter the realm where they allow their dreams to roam freely. We become products of an average mindset.

If you want to be a huge success, it is vital that you enlarge your thinking. Those who achieve greatness have vivid dreams. For many, their imagination is their most valuable asset. They simply think on a level which is higher than most. Fortunately, this is something that is available to everyone who is willing to grasp it.

Sex is one of the most powerful motivators we have. One's sexual lifestyle tends to show the level of thinking that one has. Do you have an incredible sex life or are you one who settles for less than you want? This is an indication of where you are. If you are one who goes after those who are in "your range", then you are a victim of little thinking. Why can't you have the supermodel? Someone is getting that person. Why not you?

I will tell you why: because you most likely are not even in the game. People who think like everyone else live life on the sidelines. They do not venture out because of the risk of rejection. Their precious egos are too frail to handle it. They will walk the safe path in hopes that things might someday change. Of course we all know it will not.

Going after someone sexually who you "consider above you" is a wonderful way to step out of your old thinking. This is one area where you will instantly see tangible results. Of course, you need to be aware that the risk of rejection is still there. However, we are not concerned about what the outcome is (if he or she goes for it, great). The important part of all this is that you actually take the action to get out of your old behavior. Just approaching a person like this yields beneficial results.

This concept applies to all areas of your life. There is nothing that is limited other than what your mind creates. Living a mediocre life is a choice. The only reason you are where you are is because you chose it. Resist the temptation to blame all others around you. Take responsibility for your life. If you life is "too small", it is because you are a little thinker. Unleash the power of your dreams by enlarging the arena in your mind. Remember, mentally there are no limits.
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Giving Away Your Sex Life

Who controls your sex life? Are you one of those people who believes that you do? Do you really believe that? If so, have you ever thought about your sexual beliefs? My hypothesis is that you have not. Few people ever consider what they believe. They simply accept those beliefs as truth.

My experience is that most people give their sex lives away. They do not forge their own sexual lifestyle. Instead, they allow the influences of others to hold power over them. In the end, it is others who are dictating what one does sexually.

If you feel this untrue, look at all those one will consider before having sex. How many people feel guilty about having sex outside of marriage? Obviously, they are allowing the influence of the religious zealot to affect how they feel about their sexual activities. Peers also have a way of directing who we will sleep with. Many people fall prey to worrying what their friends will think before going to bed with someone who is "less than desirable".

All these different groups hold power over the masses. Society uses sex as a method of maintaining the order it wants. Sex is the second most powerful desire next to the desire to live. Anyone who can control the sex desire controls the person. Religions, long the power base in historical societies, have done this for centuries. Sex outside of marriage is a sin, period. And, certain sex acts within the marriage are also sins.

If you buy into any of this stuff then you are giving away your sex life. Individual power does not come by doing that. This is one of the reasons why I believe that sex as a motivator is never used. People do not retain the power over their sex lives. It is something that they freely toss to another (person or institution) without a thought. If you are to live according to the ideals of sex as a motivator, you must take this power back.

Personal development begins with the inward search as to what makes you go. We all have natural inclinations that are present within us. Some are consistent with humanity while others are particular to certain people. Those who question the beliefs and ideals that are instilled by others are those who have a chance of breaking free. Freedom ultimately leads to success. Bondage or imprisonment (of the mind) always ends in failure. Giving away your sex life is a catastrophic failure.

It is best to recognize others for what they are. Everyone seeks to assume control. It is a basic tenet of humanity. This is true at the level of the individual, group, or society. A government wants to have control over the masses. Politicians continually seek to gain more power. Religious entities promise eternal damnation without adherence to their beliefs. Parents want the happiness of their children as long as it fits into the parameters they choose. Everywhere you turn, someone is going to influence how you think.

Start by regaining your sex life back. Sit down and decide what you want sexually. How can you exercise the natural power that is within you to make yourself happier and more successful? Where are you presently altering your behavior to satisfy the beliefs of another? These are all ideas which will help you to shape the sex life that you desire.

Actions Not Words

We are judged based upon our actions. Words are meaningless unless we follow them up with action. This is the mistake that many make. It is easy to talk a "big game". However, backing those words up is a different matter altogether.

Sexual motivation is all about using the natural desires within us to move ourselves to action. The world is watching how we behave and all success depends upon our ability to act. Those who succumb to procrastination end up living a life that is wrought with disappointment.

Some of the best examples show this point emphatically. Let us use our physical body. Many can use losing weight. We are a nation of "lard asses" who need to get active. This is not a secret. In fact, most will tell you they need to lose weight. However, do they ever do anything about it? For the majority, the answer is "no".

Talking about losing weight will not bring about success. The same is true for business, money, or relationships. All the promises in the world are worthless without action. Success is a result of taking action in some form. All my writing is a result of me sitting down and doing it. Tax returns are filed because accountants fill them out. Building erected only after people get busy building them. At some point, everything needs to move from the planning stage.

The power of success is a great motivator to get people to act. Whenever you can picture yourself getting a sexual payoff, you are more likely to take some action. Overcoming fears that reside in our mind is often part of the process. Nevertheless, the payoff is worth it when sex is involved.

Another example which shows how important action is in the area of relationships. Many fall prey to the fear of rejection. When confronted with the prospect of asking someone out, often the mind will picture all the bad that can happen from that question. It instantly jumps to the rejection. Of course, it is impossible to get laid without asking someone out. Failure to do so will only lead to masturbation.

Consider these words as you go through your day. How much time are you spending doing as opposed to thinking. We need to understand how important taking action is. If we are continually procrastinating, then we will suffer the consequences for that. The world has a way of finding and rewarding those who take action. Make sure you are one of them.

Getting Started

This is one of the fundamentals of success. Nothing is ever accomplished if you never get started. The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step (or something like that). Thus, we are going to look at the concept of taking the first action.

Often, the first step is mental. This sounds contradictory to what is normally professed, especially when someone has difficulty taking action. Nevertheless, time spent in thought always pays off handsomely when it is directed in the proper area. In this instance, you are seeking what you want in life. What is it that makes you happiest? This is crucial to enabling ourselves to act.

Another part of the process is to envision what the payoff is. This is where sexual motivation comes into play. It is easier to move forward when we consider there is some sexual gratification at the end. For example, working out is something that many put off. We hem and haw about our physiques only to procrastinate when it comes time to act. There is always a reasonable excuse for not starting.

Now, consider this: what if you were able to have a weekend of sex with Brad Pitt or Jennifer Aniston (or substitute whoever you want in here)? What would your motivation level be then. Imagine all the "freaky" things the two of you could do together. You are limited here only by your imagination. If you are one who fantasized about either of them, you are already partly there. Now, just taking action for the next hour will enable all your sexual fantasies to come true. A single workout then total sexual gratification.

Do you think your level of motivation increased because of this mindset? If you are sexually inspired by either of those people, it will be. This concept need not be based in fact. We are entering the realm of the mind where all that it sees is real. If it sees sex as a result of a workout, that is the reality of the situation. Nothing is virtual in the mental state.

Thus, we get started. Taking the single action is so crucial. Once we have our mindset, it is important to take a small step to move us forward. In the above example, put your workout attire on. We all know it is easier to workout once we get to the gym. It is the leaving of the house that is difficult. The added motivation that comes from sexual payoffs help to make this transition easier. Oftentimes, the first step is the hardest.

Remember this little tidbit of information the next time you are confronted with some procrastination in your life. Everything can be accomplished if we will only begin to take action. However, nothing was ever achieved without action. Success is movement based.

To your success.

Sex Game To Motivate

There is a very simple way to get yourself to take action: enlist someone to have sex with you if you complete it. For 95% of the people out there, the idea of getting laid as a reward will instantly stimulate action towards a desired end. There is nothing more powerful than the allure of sex. Couple this with the idea that sex is guaranteed if a task is completed and you have enough drive to move mountains.

I know what you are all thinking: how can I demean the most precious act between a couple. Get real. Do you really buy into that dribble? The truth is that most people, after a few months with the same partner, are interested in "getting off". While they may still have their partners interest at heart, they are concerned with their own. This is equally true for men as well as women.

Once again we see how society puts sex in an unrealistic position. Sex can be an expression of love. It is also a physical act culminating with a physical climax (if done right). We see how the attachment people have to sex changes things. Take a relationship for example: everything changes when you have sex with that other person. But does it need to be that way? In my opinion it does not.

The other area of resistance is the idea that providing sex to another as a reward will make one into a "prostitute". Again I say grow up. Spread you legs and let the boy have his way. Deep down we are all sexual beings. The idea of assisting someone you care about to reach his or her highest potential is beyond words. Why shouldn't you offer the most powerful motivator the Universe ever created? Obviously because of past stigmas.

Couples who play a sex game such as this find their relationship is deeper and more exciting. There is nothing wrong with offering sex as reward for a job well done. Hell, people need not be couples to utilize the technique. Friends can provide the same motivation to each other. In fact, that often is a greater motivator than when it is a spouse. We all love to have new experiences and nowhere is this truer than in the sexual arena.

My basic belief is that people put too much emphasis on sex. It is something that most people thoroughly enjoy. Therefore, it has the power to completely alter one's lot in life. When you find that you are falling behind on certain tasks, just find someone who will agree to have sex with you if you complete them. I can assure you that your productivity will increase immediately.