Did you notice how the power of sex reared its head again? I am always amazed how much sex costs. The latest is that Tiger Woods sexual activities put $100 million at risk. This is what endorsers pay him annually for his "wholesome" image.
What is really going to happen in this situation? It is simple. Just look at Kobe Bryant for all your answers. Tiger, in due time, will come out of this unscathed. His pursuit of eternal greatness will put him in the place he always occupied. We are a society that forgets.
Tiger's wife might leave and take him to the cleaners. That is his only challenge. While there might be a few sponsors who jump ship in the short term, they will eventually come around. The reason I say this is because as soon as Woods is competing for the title in a Major on Sunday, everyone wants their logo on his hat and shirt. This is worth millions to them (and him).
But why did this all go down? Did it have to happen this way? In our culture it does. Since we do not embrace the power of sex, we are apt to fall victim to it. Instead of keeping it in its proper light, we rather embrace the facade of monogamy. How did that work in this instance? Obviously, Woods, being a healthy, wealthy man, followed his natural instincts and hit up all he could. That is what men have done for centuries.
The fact is that icons will continue to succumb to the same pressures from here on. There is no secret to why it happens. Yet, culture tries to portray this in a way that makes it a moral issue. It is odd that nobody questions Woods eating habits. This is a natural desire he fulfills daily like everyone else. However, when it comes to sex, we are suppose to go against what is natural. Thus, the unnatural becomes common. Of course, it also is impossible to follow.
Sexual Motivation is all about embracing and utilizing this incredible power which resides within us. Tiger Woods showed his ability on and off the golf course. Unfortunately, in this society, there is a price to pay for that. Perhaps it is time to move out of the Victorian Age.
Showing posts with label oral sex. Show all posts
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Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Abstinence-One Way To Motivate
Here is something to consider: what if I had the power to determine whether you would ever have sex again or not? I know, that power already is being utilized by your wife. But seriously, what if you had to have my permission to have sex and I would only grant it based upon certain parameters being met? How do you think your life would change? I would bet it would see an noticeable jump upwards.
The reason why I say this is because I can hold one to a very high standard. The foundation of sexual motivation is to open ourselves up the ingrained power that is our sexual desire. This is something that is natural and, other than the desire for survival, the more powerful desire we have.
Envisioning yourself living life without sex will provide insight into the magical force this is. How do you feel about never having sex again? Abstinence, or the threat of, can be really motivating. I used this technique many times to get myself over periods of stagnation.
Many motivational experts will use the love of one's children to emphasize how one can always move things up to another level. They will ask a person if he or she could complete the action if the life of the children was at stake. Often, they will mention that if you do not do this, your children will die (graphic but effective). When confronted with this prospect, naturally most will say that they will find a way to get it accomplished.
This is the same idea. What we need to do is to stimulate the mind to get out of the way. If you believe you can do no more, then you are right. However, if we add certain stimuli, we often find a new belief is created. Suddenly, when faced with the prospect of lifelong abstinence, one finds the internal fortitude to succeed. Of course, this is something that was there all along, the mind just bought into the excuses that one offered up. Sexual motivation is how we break free from the consequences of those excuses.
One final thought on this idea: couples can really use this as a means of getting the other to step up. Decide on some things that need to be done. Use sex as a reward and abstinence as a punishment. Watch how quickly motivation changes when confronted with this situation. You will see productivity increase substantially.
Play around with this idea and see where it gets you.
The reason why I say this is because I can hold one to a very high standard. The foundation of sexual motivation is to open ourselves up the ingrained power that is our sexual desire. This is something that is natural and, other than the desire for survival, the more powerful desire we have.
Envisioning yourself living life without sex will provide insight into the magical force this is. How do you feel about never having sex again? Abstinence, or the threat of, can be really motivating. I used this technique many times to get myself over periods of stagnation.
Many motivational experts will use the love of one's children to emphasize how one can always move things up to another level. They will ask a person if he or she could complete the action if the life of the children was at stake. Often, they will mention that if you do not do this, your children will die (graphic but effective). When confronted with this prospect, naturally most will say that they will find a way to get it accomplished.
This is the same idea. What we need to do is to stimulate the mind to get out of the way. If you believe you can do no more, then you are right. However, if we add certain stimuli, we often find a new belief is created. Suddenly, when faced with the prospect of lifelong abstinence, one finds the internal fortitude to succeed. Of course, this is something that was there all along, the mind just bought into the excuses that one offered up. Sexual motivation is how we break free from the consequences of those excuses.
One final thought on this idea: couples can really use this as a means of getting the other to step up. Decide on some things that need to be done. Use sex as a reward and abstinence as a punishment. Watch how quickly motivation changes when confronted with this situation. You will see productivity increase substantially.
Play around with this idea and see where it gets you.
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Oral Motivation
As most readers know, I live an open sexual lifestyle. For this reason, I am freer to experiment with different ways to motivate myself. For those who live the same way, many of the suggestions I offer can be directly applied. However, the same holds true for those who are involved in monogamous relationships. Sexual motivation works regardless of who is delivering the sex.
It is a well known fact that any guy loves a good blowjob. By the same token, most women love to have their pussies eaten out. Oral provides us with some of the most fantastic orgasms we experience. I know many who would rather receive oral as opposed to getting laid. It is something that we find highly intoxicating.
Society deters the notion of offering sexual favors as rewards. People who do this are either doing something illegal (prostitutes) or morally incorrigible (sluts). The bottom line is that society likes to control all aspects of life and sex is the most powerful. Condition people in that area and you control all the rest.
Nevertheless, I take exception to this idea. I think that sex as a reward is a wonderful way to motivate a spouse. As mentioned, one of the best ways is to offer oral sex. It is a simple premise to do: tell your sexual partner if he or she does (blank), you will perform oral sex. If you are dealing with a guy, watch how fast he jumps to accomplish what you set down for him. A blowjob will motivate even the laziest guy to do the worst of tasks. Offer it and he will do (cumming comes later).
Many will claim this idea is sick and perverted. However, those who are willing to try it will quickly determine that motivation is nearby. If you find there is something that you were badgering one to get done, offer oral sex as a reward. In most instances the action will be completed by sunset. The motivation that was lacking for so long is instantly found. It only required pushing the right buttons.
Oral sex as a reward is a powerful way to get things done.
It is a well known fact that any guy loves a good blowjob. By the same token, most women love to have their pussies eaten out. Oral provides us with some of the most fantastic orgasms we experience. I know many who would rather receive oral as opposed to getting laid. It is something that we find highly intoxicating.
Society deters the notion of offering sexual favors as rewards. People who do this are either doing something illegal (prostitutes) or morally incorrigible (sluts). The bottom line is that society likes to control all aspects of life and sex is the most powerful. Condition people in that area and you control all the rest.
Nevertheless, I take exception to this idea. I think that sex as a reward is a wonderful way to motivate a spouse. As mentioned, one of the best ways is to offer oral sex. It is a simple premise to do: tell your sexual partner if he or she does (blank), you will perform oral sex. If you are dealing with a guy, watch how fast he jumps to accomplish what you set down for him. A blowjob will motivate even the laziest guy to do the worst of tasks. Offer it and he will do (cumming comes later).
Many will claim this idea is sick and perverted. However, those who are willing to try it will quickly determine that motivation is nearby. If you find there is something that you were badgering one to get done, offer oral sex as a reward. In most instances the action will be completed by sunset. The motivation that was lacking for so long is instantly found. It only required pushing the right buttons.
Oral sex as a reward is a powerful way to get things done.
