The main idea behind sexual motivation is to enable people to tap into the natural potential which resides within them. Most of us are capable of so much more. Yet, we buy into the concepts of a society which lead to mediocrity. It is sad to witness but this fact offers an opportunity for those willing to move ahead. People who learn how to take action are able to enjoy the success above everyone else.
Society preaches dependence. This is the main message we receive when we look at the basic ideas of the governments, charities, and religious institutions. Individual dreams and desires is being replaced with the idea of "the greater good". It is something that causes those with talent to "sacrifice" for the benefit of others. We are taught that we are compassionate, loving, and altruistic. This is not true. What we are is allowing ourselves to be robbed of all that we can create because of the inner abilities we have.
Sex is one of the most powerful forces on Earth. We see its power each time we witness what one is giving up for this elusive force. Nevertheless, we are taught to forgive the "transgressions" of these individuals. Instead of admitting they are following a natural desire, we are told these people are "fallible". Society preaches that there is something wrong with following our natural desires. It places conditions on our behavior by teaching us what is right and what is wrong.
Those who are able to see this outlook for what it is are able to overcome the conditioning. This is why I call it "creating the elite". Being elite is a category that is above the masses. People who are elite can do things that are out of reach for the masses. They have privileges because of their place in society.
Those who are able to practice sexual motivation attain the elite status. While the majority of people are following the tenets which breeds mediocrity, we tap into those desires which result in success. Everything in the world is available for conquest. This is an idea that goes back to the beginning of civilization. Following certain patterns of behavior creates success in any field, culture, or society. The only question is whether action is taken or not.
Sexual motivation is all about taking action. We believe this is the best way to get oneself to take those steps which ultimately lead to success. Tapping into one of the most powerful forces ever created will yield much greater results as opposed to hoping and praying for things to be different. Those who wish enjoy nothing more than pipedreams. Those who act enjoy all this planet has to offer.
Monday, September 28, 2009
Sunday, September 20, 2009
The Weak
Sexual motivation is not for everyone. There are many who simply are incapable of getting past the conditioning of society. The religions of the world place a horrible mental strain on people. This indoctrination starts at a very young age and continues into adulthood. By the time most are in their late teens, they are trained to follow the agenda set forth by society.
The majority of people are sheep. They exist only to be slaughtered. We see them on a daily basis. Much of our society revolves around the "helping" of these people. Everyone is viewed in terms of the collective whole as opposed to individually. This helps to protect the weak. We are told that conscientious people take care of the less fortunate. This is true. But why do we take care of the able-bodied? That is something to seriously consider.
Sex is a taboo subject in many cultures. We see throughout the ages how it was used as a mechanism to control. This idea is in full force today. Society carries the "Puritan" principles with it regarding this natural topic. People parlay that into behavior which is wrought with guilt and fear. Anything that is taboo holds an attraction yet must be engaged in secrecy. Fetishes, alternative lifestyles, and other non-mainstream ideas are rarely spoken about. People who engage in these behaviors are labeled in an effort to get them to conform.
People simply live with the "herd mentality". Even if they believe something different, they will go with the masses so as to "fit in". This is where the powerful are granted control. The fear of being ostracized is too great for most. They do not have the inner strength to stand on their own. This is true in most cultures throughout time.
Individualism is something that many cannot handle. Sexual motivation is all about the desires and motives of the individual. It necessitates the removing of old ideas and replacing them with more productive notions. Society strives for equality, something that doesn't exist in nature. This belief leads to mediocrity. Instead of raising up the bottom, it ultimately tears down the top.
Nature says the meek should be slaughtered. Some are designed as predators, others as prey. We see this in the animal kingdom. Man, even though he tries to deny, is part of that kingdom. Everything that applies in the animal world is equally applicable to man. Ignorance does not change the facts.
Our minds are the most powerful computers on the planet. Sadly, most have a defective database. They believe the "enslaving" concepts society promotes. Your sex life is your own. It is a powerful force that is given in nature to guide and motivate you. Man will do insane things for sex, most often to his own detriment. Some of the most powerful people in the world were taken down because of sexual forays. They were stuck in the mindset which forced them to be sneaky. Ultimately, the facts were exposed and their careers ended.
The weak buy into the notion that sex has to look a particular way. On the other hand, the strong believe that it is their choice to fulfill this desire however one wants (as long as it is not infringing upon the safety and choices of others). Using the sexual desire to better yourself is one of the smartest things a person can do. Nature created this strong desire within us; utilize it for your benefit.
Most of these ideas entail you standing on your own. It breaks from the common thinking of the masses. However, the masses are mediocre at best. Leading a successful life means steering away from the blind faith others hold. Make your own choices. Sex is something that is natural and wonderful. It is also very powerful. Use it to your advantage. It will lead to your success. Remember, the rest of the world simply gives it away.
The majority of people are sheep. They exist only to be slaughtered. We see them on a daily basis. Much of our society revolves around the "helping" of these people. Everyone is viewed in terms of the collective whole as opposed to individually. This helps to protect the weak. We are told that conscientious people take care of the less fortunate. This is true. But why do we take care of the able-bodied? That is something to seriously consider.
Sex is a taboo subject in many cultures. We see throughout the ages how it was used as a mechanism to control. This idea is in full force today. Society carries the "Puritan" principles with it regarding this natural topic. People parlay that into behavior which is wrought with guilt and fear. Anything that is taboo holds an attraction yet must be engaged in secrecy. Fetishes, alternative lifestyles, and other non-mainstream ideas are rarely spoken about. People who engage in these behaviors are labeled in an effort to get them to conform.
People simply live with the "herd mentality". Even if they believe something different, they will go with the masses so as to "fit in". This is where the powerful are granted control. The fear of being ostracized is too great for most. They do not have the inner strength to stand on their own. This is true in most cultures throughout time.
Individualism is something that many cannot handle. Sexual motivation is all about the desires and motives of the individual. It necessitates the removing of old ideas and replacing them with more productive notions. Society strives for equality, something that doesn't exist in nature. This belief leads to mediocrity. Instead of raising up the bottom, it ultimately tears down the top.
Nature says the meek should be slaughtered. Some are designed as predators, others as prey. We see this in the animal kingdom. Man, even though he tries to deny, is part of that kingdom. Everything that applies in the animal world is equally applicable to man. Ignorance does not change the facts.
Our minds are the most powerful computers on the planet. Sadly, most have a defective database. They believe the "enslaving" concepts society promotes. Your sex life is your own. It is a powerful force that is given in nature to guide and motivate you. Man will do insane things for sex, most often to his own detriment. Some of the most powerful people in the world were taken down because of sexual forays. They were stuck in the mindset which forced them to be sneaky. Ultimately, the facts were exposed and their careers ended.
The weak buy into the notion that sex has to look a particular way. On the other hand, the strong believe that it is their choice to fulfill this desire however one wants (as long as it is not infringing upon the safety and choices of others). Using the sexual desire to better yourself is one of the smartest things a person can do. Nature created this strong desire within us; utilize it for your benefit.
Most of these ideas entail you standing on your own. It breaks from the common thinking of the masses. However, the masses are mediocre at best. Leading a successful life means steering away from the blind faith others hold. Make your own choices. Sex is something that is natural and wonderful. It is also very powerful. Use it to your advantage. It will lead to your success. Remember, the rest of the world simply gives it away.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Abstinence-One Way To Motivate
Here is something to consider: what if I had the power to determine whether you would ever have sex again or not? I know, that power already is being utilized by your wife. But seriously, what if you had to have my permission to have sex and I would only grant it based upon certain parameters being met? How do you think your life would change? I would bet it would see an noticeable jump upwards.
The reason why I say this is because I can hold one to a very high standard. The foundation of sexual motivation is to open ourselves up the ingrained power that is our sexual desire. This is something that is natural and, other than the desire for survival, the more powerful desire we have.
Envisioning yourself living life without sex will provide insight into the magical force this is. How do you feel about never having sex again? Abstinence, or the threat of, can be really motivating. I used this technique many times to get myself over periods of stagnation.
Many motivational experts will use the love of one's children to emphasize how one can always move things up to another level. They will ask a person if he or she could complete the action if the life of the children was at stake. Often, they will mention that if you do not do this, your children will die (graphic but effective). When confronted with this prospect, naturally most will say that they will find a way to get it accomplished.
This is the same idea. What we need to do is to stimulate the mind to get out of the way. If you believe you can do no more, then you are right. However, if we add certain stimuli, we often find a new belief is created. Suddenly, when faced with the prospect of lifelong abstinence, one finds the internal fortitude to succeed. Of course, this is something that was there all along, the mind just bought into the excuses that one offered up. Sexual motivation is how we break free from the consequences of those excuses.
One final thought on this idea: couples can really use this as a means of getting the other to step up. Decide on some things that need to be done. Use sex as a reward and abstinence as a punishment. Watch how quickly motivation changes when confronted with this situation. You will see productivity increase substantially.
Play around with this idea and see where it gets you.
The reason why I say this is because I can hold one to a very high standard. The foundation of sexual motivation is to open ourselves up the ingrained power that is our sexual desire. This is something that is natural and, other than the desire for survival, the more powerful desire we have.
Envisioning yourself living life without sex will provide insight into the magical force this is. How do you feel about never having sex again? Abstinence, or the threat of, can be really motivating. I used this technique many times to get myself over periods of stagnation.
Many motivational experts will use the love of one's children to emphasize how one can always move things up to another level. They will ask a person if he or she could complete the action if the life of the children was at stake. Often, they will mention that if you do not do this, your children will die (graphic but effective). When confronted with this prospect, naturally most will say that they will find a way to get it accomplished.
This is the same idea. What we need to do is to stimulate the mind to get out of the way. If you believe you can do no more, then you are right. However, if we add certain stimuli, we often find a new belief is created. Suddenly, when faced with the prospect of lifelong abstinence, one finds the internal fortitude to succeed. Of course, this is something that was there all along, the mind just bought into the excuses that one offered up. Sexual motivation is how we break free from the consequences of those excuses.
One final thought on this idea: couples can really use this as a means of getting the other to step up. Decide on some things that need to be done. Use sex as a reward and abstinence as a punishment. Watch how quickly motivation changes when confronted with this situation. You will see productivity increase substantially.
Play around with this idea and see where it gets you.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Think Bigger
Are you a victim of "small thinking"? This is the syndrome which stricken most to a life of mediocrity. The vast percentage of the population sabotages themselves by the thoughts they have. Few will enter the realm where they allow their dreams to roam freely. We become products of an average mindset.
If you want to be a huge success, it is vital that you enlarge your thinking. Those who achieve greatness have vivid dreams. For many, their imagination is their most valuable asset. They simply think on a level which is higher than most. Fortunately, this is something that is available to everyone who is willing to grasp it.
Sex is one of the most powerful motivators we have. One's sexual lifestyle tends to show the level of thinking that one has. Do you have an incredible sex life or are you one who settles for less than you want? This is an indication of where you are. If you are one who goes after those who are in "your range", then you are a victim of little thinking. Why can't you have the supermodel? Someone is getting that person. Why not you?
I will tell you why: because you most likely are not even in the game. People who think like everyone else live life on the sidelines. They do not venture out because of the risk of rejection. Their precious egos are too frail to handle it. They will walk the safe path in hopes that things might someday change. Of course we all know it will not.
Going after someone sexually who you "consider above you" is a wonderful way to step out of your old thinking. This is one area where you will instantly see tangible results. Of course, you need to be aware that the risk of rejection is still there. However, we are not concerned about what the outcome is (if he or she goes for it, great). The important part of all this is that you actually take the action to get out of your old behavior. Just approaching a person like this yields beneficial results.
This concept applies to all areas of your life. There is nothing that is limited other than what your mind creates. Living a mediocre life is a choice. The only reason you are where you are is because you chose it. Resist the temptation to blame all others around you. Take responsibility for your life. If you life is "too small", it is because you are a little thinker. Unleash the power of your dreams by enlarging the arena in your mind. Remember, mentally there are no limits.
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If you want to be a huge success, it is vital that you enlarge your thinking. Those who achieve greatness have vivid dreams. For many, their imagination is their most valuable asset. They simply think on a level which is higher than most. Fortunately, this is something that is available to everyone who is willing to grasp it.
Sex is one of the most powerful motivators we have. One's sexual lifestyle tends to show the level of thinking that one has. Do you have an incredible sex life or are you one who settles for less than you want? This is an indication of where you are. If you are one who goes after those who are in "your range", then you are a victim of little thinking. Why can't you have the supermodel? Someone is getting that person. Why not you?
I will tell you why: because you most likely are not even in the game. People who think like everyone else live life on the sidelines. They do not venture out because of the risk of rejection. Their precious egos are too frail to handle it. They will walk the safe path in hopes that things might someday change. Of course we all know it will not.
Going after someone sexually who you "consider above you" is a wonderful way to step out of your old thinking. This is one area where you will instantly see tangible results. Of course, you need to be aware that the risk of rejection is still there. However, we are not concerned about what the outcome is (if he or she goes for it, great). The important part of all this is that you actually take the action to get out of your old behavior. Just approaching a person like this yields beneficial results.
This concept applies to all areas of your life. There is nothing that is limited other than what your mind creates. Living a mediocre life is a choice. The only reason you are where you are is because you chose it. Resist the temptation to blame all others around you. Take responsibility for your life. If you life is "too small", it is because you are a little thinker. Unleash the power of your dreams by enlarging the arena in your mind. Remember, mentally there are no limits.
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Saturday, September 12, 2009
Giving Away Your Sex Life
Who controls your sex life? Are you one of those people who believes that you do? Do you really believe that? If so, have you ever thought about your sexual beliefs? My hypothesis is that you have not. Few people ever consider what they believe. They simply accept those beliefs as truth.
My experience is that most people give their sex lives away. They do not forge their own sexual lifestyle. Instead, they allow the influences of others to hold power over them. In the end, it is others who are dictating what one does sexually.
If you feel this untrue, look at all those one will consider before having sex. How many people feel guilty about having sex outside of marriage? Obviously, they are allowing the influence of the religious zealot to affect how they feel about their sexual activities. Peers also have a way of directing who we will sleep with. Many people fall prey to worrying what their friends will think before going to bed with someone who is "less than desirable".
All these different groups hold power over the masses. Society uses sex as a method of maintaining the order it wants. Sex is the second most powerful desire next to the desire to live. Anyone who can control the sex desire controls the person. Religions, long the power base in historical societies, have done this for centuries. Sex outside of marriage is a sin, period. And, certain sex acts within the marriage are also sins.
If you buy into any of this stuff then you are giving away your sex life. Individual power does not come by doing that. This is one of the reasons why I believe that sex as a motivator is never used. People do not retain the power over their sex lives. It is something that they freely toss to another (person or institution) without a thought. If you are to live according to the ideals of sex as a motivator, you must take this power back.
Personal development begins with the inward search as to what makes you go. We all have natural inclinations that are present within us. Some are consistent with humanity while others are particular to certain people. Those who question the beliefs and ideals that are instilled by others are those who have a chance of breaking free. Freedom ultimately leads to success. Bondage or imprisonment (of the mind) always ends in failure. Giving away your sex life is a catastrophic failure.
It is best to recognize others for what they are. Everyone seeks to assume control. It is a basic tenet of humanity. This is true at the level of the individual, group, or society. A government wants to have control over the masses. Politicians continually seek to gain more power. Religious entities promise eternal damnation without adherence to their beliefs. Parents want the happiness of their children as long as it fits into the parameters they choose. Everywhere you turn, someone is going to influence how you think.
Start by regaining your sex life back. Sit down and decide what you want sexually. How can you exercise the natural power that is within you to make yourself happier and more successful? Where are you presently altering your behavior to satisfy the beliefs of another? These are all ideas which will help you to shape the sex life that you desire.
My experience is that most people give their sex lives away. They do not forge their own sexual lifestyle. Instead, they allow the influences of others to hold power over them. In the end, it is others who are dictating what one does sexually.
If you feel this untrue, look at all those one will consider before having sex. How many people feel guilty about having sex outside of marriage? Obviously, they are allowing the influence of the religious zealot to affect how they feel about their sexual activities. Peers also have a way of directing who we will sleep with. Many people fall prey to worrying what their friends will think before going to bed with someone who is "less than desirable".
All these different groups hold power over the masses. Society uses sex as a method of maintaining the order it wants. Sex is the second most powerful desire next to the desire to live. Anyone who can control the sex desire controls the person. Religions, long the power base in historical societies, have done this for centuries. Sex outside of marriage is a sin, period. And, certain sex acts within the marriage are also sins.
If you buy into any of this stuff then you are giving away your sex life. Individual power does not come by doing that. This is one of the reasons why I believe that sex as a motivator is never used. People do not retain the power over their sex lives. It is something that they freely toss to another (person or institution) without a thought. If you are to live according to the ideals of sex as a motivator, you must take this power back.
Personal development begins with the inward search as to what makes you go. We all have natural inclinations that are present within us. Some are consistent with humanity while others are particular to certain people. Those who question the beliefs and ideals that are instilled by others are those who have a chance of breaking free. Freedom ultimately leads to success. Bondage or imprisonment (of the mind) always ends in failure. Giving away your sex life is a catastrophic failure.
It is best to recognize others for what they are. Everyone seeks to assume control. It is a basic tenet of humanity. This is true at the level of the individual, group, or society. A government wants to have control over the masses. Politicians continually seek to gain more power. Religious entities promise eternal damnation without adherence to their beliefs. Parents want the happiness of their children as long as it fits into the parameters they choose. Everywhere you turn, someone is going to influence how you think.
Start by regaining your sex life back. Sit down and decide what you want sexually. How can you exercise the natural power that is within you to make yourself happier and more successful? Where are you presently altering your behavior to satisfy the beliefs of another? These are all ideas which will help you to shape the sex life that you desire.
